What Does The Bible Say About Dating? 3 Principles To Conduct Relationships In A Godly Way.

This subject provokes both interest and anxiety in today’s society. However, I want to clarify that we will touch the subject in a general and practical way, and we will continue to deepen in other posts on each of its edges. Today I specifically want us to talk about what the bible says about dating and the information it gives us to choose wisely that special person.

First, let’s get something clear

Sorry to disappoint you with this, but the Bible doesn’t mention dating as we know it today, as the concept of dating is a relatively modern phenomenon. However, the Bible does offer principles and guidelines for how to conduct relationships and romantic partnerships in a godly way.

God gave us the freedom to choose the person we want to marry. However, in many verses and stories, he warns us of the importance of choosing the right person as that will be crucial in our life.

It is important that as Christians we have clear standards regarding the person we want for our life. Believe me, lower your standards enough and you could get married tonight, but just think about the kind of person you would find.

The Bible is clear with this information, so here are 3 Bible-based principles to keep in mind when choosing a partner:

• Shared faith: I know you’ve heard this before, believers should not be yoked together with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). This means that Christians should seek to form romantic relationships only with other believers who share their faith and values. However, there are other aspects that must be taken into account within this same principle. While a shared faith is important, it’s also important to consider whether you are compatible with a potential partner in terms of your personality, interests, calling, goals, etc. This doesn’t mean that you have to be identical, but it does mean that you should be able to work together and support each other in your pursuits.

• Character: This is where you should pay attention to his or her environment. For example, see how that person is with friends and family, is the same person inside the church as outside it? I think you get the point. Proverbs 31:30 says, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” In other words, it’s important to look beyond external appearances and focus on a person’s character, including qualities like kindness, honesty, and integrity.

• Focus on becoming: Focusing on “becoming the person that the person you are looking for is looking for” can be an opportunity for personal growth and development. By working on improving your relationship with God, you can become a better version of yourself, which can help you in all areas of your life, including your relationships. By doing so, you are more likely to attract the right kind of person into your life. When you are working on your relationship with God and becoming the best version of yourself, you are more likely to attract someone who is also on a similar path of personal growth and development. As a Christian, your ultimate goal should be to honor God in all that you do. By focusing on becoming the right person, you can strive to live a life that is pleasing to God and reflects His love and grace to others.

These are just 3 of the many principles that the bible gives us on this subject, I encourage you to continue to learn more and seek to apply these principles in your life. It’s important to seek wisdom and guidance from God and from trusted mentors and advisors when making such an important decision. Pray for discernment and clarity, and seek the counsel of those who have your best interests at heart.